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MARRIAGE IS SWEET!

Hello anti Lay, its an honour to share my chronicle of hope with you and my fellow blog visitors (BV)

I met my hubby to be when I was 20 and an undergraduate. We courted for 4yrs and got married 2years ago. Our marriage is blessed with a beautiful daughter. 

Before I finally agreed to choose my hubby over all the men who were asking for my hand in marriage, I considered the following attributes which are;

His stand with God

His Temperament 

His social life

His relationship with his parents and siblings

His ability to share the much or little he has with me and finally his dentition(lol). These were actually the things I was  looking out for and he passed it all. Surprisingly, my mother thought other wise has I had other good loooking suitors who were so tall and handsome, earn good pay and stingy to death. 

   The ones who were not stingy had  questionable characters or did not have the fear of God. My father was behind me because he believed In me. After much talk and prayers, I finally convinced my mother and she gave her blessings. We had a successful wedding ceremony and married life began.

   During courtship, my then hubby provides all my needs down to my undies and I felt it was because we  were dating but dear Bvs, it got  better in marriage. His stand  in God was awesome, my in-laws adore me infact I visit them more than my parents. As for being a father, he is the best as he helps me alot and I forget that I dont have a maid. He eats whatever I feed him with, doesn't keep late night and has helped my spiritual life. He is a good man and the most handsome man to me even though my mama say he no fine(lol)I like am like that. 

when my mother came for omuguo, she was amazed at the kind of love and affection he has for me and she confessed that I got marriage right. Stella, you might find it hard to believe bu since I got married we have never had cause to quarrel. Its been God in my marriage. What worked for me might not work for everyone but I thought I should share. 

Dear single ladies, marriage is sweet and enjoyable dont be discouraged. As for many troubled marriages, I speak peace into your homes in Jesus Name. Warm Regards.